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A little about me:
My name is Doug Stagg and I am a single parent of a very beautiful little boy who has Autism. He was diagnosed at a very early
age (around 2) I only want to be the best loving parent to my son as possible. This is why I am creating this
web page to try to connect with other parents, single and married, who have children of any disabilities and to find comradeship
between all of us. As a parent with a child who has special needs, we all need to work together to advocate for our
beautiful children, especially during these hard economic times where everything seems to be getting cut by our local and
federal government including our jobs. This is when our children stand to lose
the most. Raising a child with special needs, is not only costly but emotionally
draining on our self’s. As
good parents, we only want the best for our children. Daddy and Crystal LOVE YOU SO MUCH Alexander.
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What's New?
Here is where I will make my entries for any new changes or updates to my web page. Where appropriate, I'll include a
link to the change.
June 10 2009 - Continue to build new web page. June 14 2009 - Added new pics of my son and
I.
Doug Stagg.
July 10 2009 - Alexander and Daddy at Bonds Park N.C.
April 15 2016 - Added new pics of my son and I and Crystal.

It is to bad Wake County
has to wait for our children to wonder off before they will enroll your child into the program!
http://www.telegram.com/article/20090710/NEWS/907100361/1101
Locators
help find autistic children
LIFE
& FAMILY
By Lisa
D. Welsh TELEGRAM & GAZETTE STAFF
WORCESTER — The story is all too familiar to many parents
of autistic children.
An autistic child in Worcester recently wandered
away and was missing. He was eventually found naked in a patch of poison ivy, but otherwise safe.
In addition to experiencing
seizures, social behavior issues and learning disabilities, autistic children wander.
Ninety-two percent of children
with autism are prone to wandering, according to the National Autism Association. According to a report by the Journal of
Autism and Developmental Disorders, elevated death rates among those with autism were in large part attributed to drownings,
after they had wandered away.
“Our kids disappear, it’s as simple as that,” said Susan J. Loring,
director of the Autism Resource Center of Central Massachusetts.
Mrs. Loring, who has a grown autistic son, said autistic
children behave similarly to adults with Alzheimer’s who might have a random destination in mind but don’t tell
caregivers where they are going or don’t respond when caregivers call.
“Autistic kids are more complicated
to find, and that’s one of the things that we train public safety officials to recognize,” she said.
As
an example, Mrs. Loring referred to a case five years ago when the search for a missing child enlisted the standard K-9 rescue
team.
“He was gone for days and it turned out that the child was running away from the dogs.”
The
Autism Resource Center was familiar with the Project Lifesaver equipment that helps keep track of wanderers
similar to the way the LoJack car theft system works. Project Lifesaver, a nonprofit started by law enforcement officers in
1999, provides training, certification, and services for law enforcement and rescue teams across the country who respond to
911 calls from caregivers of lost autistic children, Alzheimer’s patients and others with cognitive disorders. The
Project Lifesaver system involves a battery-operated radio wrist transmitter that emits an automatic tracking signal every
second, 24 hours a day. The signal is tracked on the ground or in the air over several miles. Each bracelet has a unique radio
frequency.
Although the cost of the equipment and training of public safety personnel is paid for by LoJack and donations
to autism agencies, the autistic or Alzheimer’s afflicted pay $99 for the detection wrist band and a monthly $30 maintenance
fee.
“We’d been trying for years to get Project Lifesaver in Worcester
County but it takes some passionate people to make it happen,”
she said.
Mrs. Loring said she had seen that before with Lance L. Mason of Winchendon, a Leominster firefighter whose 7-year-old son, William, is on the severe end of the autism
spectrum; he is nonverbal and has limited life skills.
As a first responder, Firefighter Mason knew how important
fast recovery is and Leominster has one of the highest incidences
of autism, with one in every 66 students diagnosed autistic; the national average is one out of 150.
In addition to
his efforts that got Project Lifesaver equipment into the city, Firefighter Mason is a member of the Autism Law Enforcement
Coalition and trains first responders all over the state with the Project Lifesaver technology.
“Thousands of
firefighters have been trained because of William, because without him I wouldn’t know what autism was about,”
Firefighter Mason said.
“Because of the sheer number of kids here on the spectrum we’ve raised enough
money so that there’s zero out-of-pocket expenses for families — so that families don’t have to pay for
the bands or replacement batteries,” he said.
Firefighter Mason said Leominster
is one of the few cities where families do not pay those fees.
Mrs. Loring said she was thrilled when she learned
that Harry and Gina Tembenis of Worcester were donating money that would pay for training local
public safety officials in the use of the Project Lifesaver equipment in Worcester
County.
Mr. and Mrs. Tembenis’ son was diagnosed with autism
when he was 4 and three years later died from autistic-related seizures.
From their grief came The Elias Tembenis
Walk for Autism, a 3,000-mile walk across the country that Tembenis family friends Robert Williams and Bobby Genese of Worcester took last year.
The effort was primarily a journey
for autism awareness but there were also donations made to help families offset the expenses that come with treating an autistic
child.
The donations went directly to the National Autism Association, but part of the Tembenis’ arrangement
with the charity was that a portion of the donations would benefit a local Worcester
initiative in Elias’ memory.
“Gina and I discussed just how we could achieve a ‘highest and best
use’ for the proceeds and then we came across Project Lifesaver,” Mr. Tembenis said
When the Tembenises
attended the Autism One Conference in Chicago last year, they met Jeremy Warnick of the LoJack Corp., the Westwood company
that had acquired the firm that manufactures the equipment for Project Lifesaver.
Negotiations started in November
and this week, Mr. and Mrs. Tembenis, LoJack, Project Lifesaver and the Worcester County Sheriffs Department came to an agreement
in principal.
“This was a two- or three-year goal for us, but with LoJack coming in, they donated the equipment,
Elias’ donation will pay for the training of first responders from all over the county,” Mr. Tembenis said.
“Our
goal, ultimately is to have it available in all of Massachusetts,”
he continued.
“Our story resonates with the public and helps break down barriers. The walk received national
exposure and that helps get in some doors and get some action going. Your take a negative and as terrible as that negative
is, you find some positive and make those changes.”
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